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Saturday, September 19, 2009

太晚睡觉等于自杀(献给爱熬夜的年轻朋友)

沉重的话题: 一个97级的名校高才生,毕业后进微软的,上月死了,只不过25岁的黄金年龄,珍视自己的生命吧,大家。

对了,又听到一个悲伤的消息。广告界的好青年,又挂了一人了。此人是联旭的,是业务还是设计我也搞不清楚,。前几天在连续加班后的某晚, 回家睡觉后第二天就叫不醒,挂了。

奇怪的是,约二个月前,也是联旭的一位女生业务,也是这样,不过她是离职后第二天,还是第几天,睡一觉就起不来了。医生说是猝死,推测是过劳。总之,这些天九点联旭就全部关灯,大家都不加班了。大家要好好保重身体呢。 那几人之前没有发生任何的迹象:原本一向身体健康,时常运动(打篮球)但在近日连续熬夜数晚,经过数日后,突然第二天起床会觉得很疲劳!一闭眼就想睡觉!(跟前一日熬夜的感觉不同),而且会腰酸背痛,但一到晚上精神又好起来!别以为这是小事!根据中医的看法,是因过劳而造成体内器官阴阳失调,就是体内器官起内讧,互相打架,最后造成器官衰竭而死,所以希望你不是下一个!

晚上9-11点为免疫系统(淋巴)排毒时间,此段时间应安静或听音乐
晚间11-凌晨1点,肝的排毒,需在熟睡中进行。
凌晨1-3点,胆的排毒,亦同。
凌晨3-5点,肺的排毒。此即为何咳嗽的人在这段时间咳得最剧烈,
因排毒动作已走到肺;不应用止咳药,以免抑制废积物的排除。
凌晨5-7点,大肠的排毒,应上厕所排便。
早上7-9点,小肠大量吸收营养的时段,应吃早餐。
疗病者最好早吃,在6点半前,养生者在7点半前,
不吃早餐者应改变习惯,即使拖到9、10点吃都比不吃好。
半夜至凌晨4点为脊椎造血时段,必须熟睡,不宜熬夜。

附:人体24小时使用手册
1∶00
人体进入浅睡阶段,易醒。此时头脑较清楚,熬夜者想睡反而睡不着。
2∶00 绝大多数器官处于一天中工作最慢的状态,肝脏却在紧张工作,生血气为人体排毒。
3∶00 进入深度睡眠阶段,肌肉完全放松。
4∶00 “黎明前的黑暗”时刻,老年人最易发生意外。血压处于一天中最低值,糖尿病病人易出现低血糖,心脑血管患者易发生心梗等。
5∶00 阳气逐渐升华,精神状态饱满。
6∶00 血压开始升高,心跳逐渐加快。高血压患者得吃降压药了。
7∶00 人体免疫力最强。吃完早饭,营养逐渐被人体吸收。
8∶00 各项生理激素分泌旺盛,开始进入工作状态。
9∶00 适合打针、手术、做体检等。此时人体气血活跃,大脑皮层兴奋,痛感降低。
10∶00 工作效率最高。
10∶00-11∶00属于人体的第一个黄金时段。心脏充分发挥其功能,精力充沛,不会感到疲劳。
12∶00 紧张工作一上午后,需要休息。
12∶00-13∶00是最佳"子午觉"时间。不宜疲劳作战,最好躺着休息半小时至一小时。
14∶00 反应迟钝。易有昏昏欲睡之感,人体应激能力降低。
15∶00 午饭营养吸收后逐渐被输送到全身,工作能力开始恢复。
15∶00-17∶00为人体第二个黄金时段。最适宜开会、公关、接待重要客人。
16∶00 血糖开始升高,有虚火者此时表现明显。阳虚、肺结核等患者的脸部最红。
17∶00 工作效率达到午后时间的最高值,也适宜进行体育锻炼。
18∶00 人体敏感度下降,痛觉随之再度降低。
19∶00 最易发生争吵。此时是人体血压波动的晚高峰,人们的情绪最不稳定。
20∶00 人体进入第三个黄金阶段。记忆力最强,大脑反应异常迅速。
20∶00-21∶00适合做作业、阅读、创作、锻炼等。
22∶00 适合梳洗。呼吸开始减慢,体温逐渐下降。最好在十点半泡脚后上床,能很快入睡。
23∶00 阳气微弱,人体功能下降,开始逐渐进入深度睡眠,一天的疲劳开始缓解。
24∶00 气血处于一天中的最低值,除了休息,不宜进行任何活动。

Saturday, August 22, 2009

越晚吃飯致死率越高‏


越晚吃飯致死率越高!!
晚上8:00才吃晚餐就算宵夜了!你是不是也常忙到 8:00才吃飯呢?小心喔! 根據統計國內70%的人具有酸性體質。酸性體質有一個很大的特徵,吃愈好得慢性疾病的機率就會很高。 因為體質變酸,酵素作用會受到阻礙,內分泌失調,荷爾蒙也會受阻礙。 酸性體質的朋友,一味地吃大魚大肉所謂有營養的食物,事實上是雪上加霜,只會讓身體越來越糟。 要找出問題的根源是去改變你的體質,才是根本解決之道。(人體應呈現弱鹼才好)
«熬夜會使體質變酸»
晚上1:00以後不睡覺,人體的代謝作用由內分泌燃燒,用內分泌燃燒產生的毒素會很多,會使體質變酸,通常熬夜的人得慢性疾病的機率比抽煙或喝酒的人都來得高。所以每天儘量在12:00以前睡覺,不要常熬夜,若非要熬夜,一星期以一次為限!熬夜時不要吃肉,盡量吃碳水化合物,這樣隔天才不至於很累,可把傷害減至最低。
«吃宵夜的人,體質容易變酸»
時常交際應酬的生意人,通常壽命較短,易患糖尿病、高血壓。凡是晚上8:00再進食就稱做宵夜。吃宵夜隔天會疲倦,爬不起床,肝也會受損,因為睡覺時,人體各器官活動力低,處於休息狀態,因此食物留在腸子裡會變酸、發酵、產生毒素傷害身體。
«早起的人身體好»
人體在凌晨4:30,體溫達到最低點,血液循環最慢,因此古時候練功的人在4:30以前就起床。 如果睡太晚,血液循環變慢,氧氣也跟著減少,變成缺氧性燃燒,會使體質變酸。
«不吃早餐的人,體質會變酸»
一天三餐中,早餐佔了70分,午餐0分,晚餐30分。可見早餐最重要,但台灣人普遍不吃早餐,更糟的是養成吃宵夜的習慣,這是非常不正確的飲食習慣。所以從現在起要更重視早餐,學習如何吃早餐。早餐一定要豐富而且要選擇耐燃燒4-5小時的食物,才足夠你一天的消耗量。
«精緻食物加速胃腸老化»
少運動且整天坐在辦公室的上班族最容易犯這種錯誤,因為吃的少,刻意選擇很精緻的食物而少吃粗糙的食物,這種人的腸子老化的特別快,肝功能差,大便是黑色的而且會常便秘。因為精緻食物缺乏纖維素,會導致腸子功能變差,甚至萎縮,你所吃的食物變成了毒素,使你體質變酸,慢性病也開始。養生之道就在日常生活裡,吃出健康,也能吃出自信。

燙傷處理新法 !‏

未破皮處之燙傷處理 (熱水、熱湯、熱油、摩托車煙管、蒸氣燙傷) 燒傷如果沒有馬上降溫與止痛,未來的心路歷程是可想而知。 當燙傷時第一時間不是很痛,是因為身體有百分之 0.9 的鹽會繼續吸皮膚發炎的熱,但會變成越來越灼熱痛,只要我們馬上用 大量的鹽 把熱吸過去就不痛了,因為鹽有吸熱和滲透的特性,民俗廟會過火撒鹽就是這個原理。
像一般家庭小燙傷:沖水後用很厚的鹽再用濕的面紙敷蓋(以防止鹽掉了),偶爾加水!只要離開鹽不痛約三小時就好! 不需敷藥也沒有留下疤痕。
(註:皮膚未破皮,用大量的鹽沒有關係!)

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Preventive Steps for H1N1

To all my dear friends, take note on these following simple preventive steps for H1N1 which are not fully highlighted in most official communications. All these are simple ways to prevent, within means of most household, and certainly much less painful than to wait in long queues outside public holidays.
1. Frequent hand-washing (well highlighted in all official communications).
2. "Hands-off-the-face" approach. Resist all temptations to touch anypart of face (unless you want to eat, bathe or slap).
3. Gargle twice a day with warm salt water (use Listerine if youdon't trust salt). H1N1 takes 2-3 days after initial infection in thethroat/ nasal cavity to proliferate and show characteristic symptoms.Simple gargling prevents proliferation. In a way, gargling with saltwater has the same effect on a healthy individual that Tamiflu has onan infected one. Don't underestimate this simple, inexpensive andpowerful preventative method.
4. Similar to 3 above, clean your nostrils at least once every daywith warm salt water. Not everybody may be good at Jala Neti or SutraNeti (very good Yoga asanas to clean nasal cavities), but blowing thenose hard once a day and swabbing both nostrils with cotton budsdipped in warm salt water is very effective in bringing down viralpopulation.
5. Boost your natural immunity with foods that are rich in Vitamin C(Amla and other citrus fruits). If you have to supplement with VitaminC tablets, make sure that it also has Zinc to boost absorption.
6. Drink as much of warm liquids as you can. Drinking warm liquidshas the same effect as gargling, but in the reverse direction. Theywash off proliferating viruses from the throat into the stomach wherethey cannot survive, proliferate or do any harm.

7 Drink water frequently to keep your throat moist all the time.

Sunday, August 9, 2009

当感情转淡时.....(有意思!)

So loving & touching story.....

他們結婚已有兩年了。

他愛好文學,經常寫文章放上網絡,可是從來沒有人去看。

他也會攝影,他們結婚的照片就是他自己拍的。

他很愛她。

她也是。

她脾氣很大,經常「欺負」他,是個「辛辣小霸王」。

他脾氣不大,經常讓她,是個「廿四孝老公」。

今天,她又「任性」了。

她﹕「你為什麼不肯替我朋友的婚禮當攝影師?她答應價錢照付。」

他﹕「那一天我剛好沒時間。」

她﹕「哼!」

他﹕「嗯?」

她﹕「什麼沒時間?你少寫幾篇鬼都不看的小說,不就行了。」

他﹕「我相信總有一天,會有人欣賞的。」

她﹕「哼!不管怎樣,你一定要替她拍婚禮照。」

他﹕「不行。」

她﹕「就只一次。」

他﹕「一次也不行。」

談判失敗了。於是,她下了最後通牒﹕

「三天之內,必須答應,否則-- 」

第一天。

她「封鎖」了廚房、浴室、電腦、雪櫃、電視機、音嚮組合,

只有雙人床沒被「封鎖」,以示「寬宏大量」。

當然,她自己也要睡。

他不在乎,因為他口袋還有點零錢。

第二天。

她施以突襲,搜去他口袋的一切,並警告﹕

「瞻敢找「外援」的話,一切後果自負。」

他慌了。

晚上。

床上。

他求饒,希望她結束這種非常狀態。

她不睬他。決心不「軟」不能被他的花言巧語「迷惑」。

除非答應條件。

第三天。

晚上。

床上。

他靠在床上,頭朝東。

她靠在床上,頭朝南。

他﹕「我們好好談談。」

她﹕「不答應條件,不談。」

他﹕「我談的很重要。」

她不吭聲。

他﹕「我們離婚吧。」

她頭皮一炸,摸摸耳朵。

他﹕「我認識一個女孩。」

她氣極了,想爬起來與他打一場。

但她又忍住了,要讓他把話說完,

不能沒有「度量」,不過,她覺得眼睛有 點濕了。

他從胸口摸出一張照片。

她猜出他是從貼身襯衫口袋掏出來的,

因為前天只有這件襯衫沒有

搜索過,是看走了眼。

他﹕「這個女孩很漂亮很溫柔」

她淚水出來了。

他﹕「而且性格也挺好。」

她很傷心,因為他把別的女孩子的照片放在「貼心」的口袋。

他﹕「她說和我結婚後全力支持我寫作。」

她很嫉妒,因為當初她也對他說過這話。

他﹕「這個女孩是真心愛我的。」

她想爬起來朝他吼﹕「我不也是?」

他﹕「因此,我想她是不會逼我幹我不願意幹的事的。」

她在考慮,但她氣難消。

他﹕「你要看看我替她拍的照片嗎?」

她﹕「? 」

他把那張照片湊到她眼前。

她火氣很大,一掌打開他的手,

再在他瞼上留下鮮紅的五指印。

他嘆了口氣。

她出了口氣。

他把照片放回口袋。

她把手縮進被窩。

他把燈熄了,睡了。

她把燈開了,起來。

他睡著了。

她失眠了。

她後悔了,不該對他這樣。

她又哭了,想了很多。

她要把他喊醒,要和他親親熱熱地談談。

她絕不再逼他了。

她盯住他胸口。

她要看看那個女孩究竟是什麼樣子?

她摸出照片。

她又好氣又好笑,又想哭又想笑。

那是她自己的「標準照」。

是他替她拍的。

她俯下身來,在他的臉上親了一下。

他笑了。原來他也沒有睡著。

人與人相處 感情有時淡有時濃

只要 不要忘記最初的相識情境

感情才能長久

戀人、朋友皆是

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If you love something very very much....
Let it go free!!!...
If it doesnt come back...
It means it does not belong to you...
If it does, Please love it forever!....
如果你很愛很愛某樣東西 就讓他自由吧!
如果他不回來, 那表示他並不屬於你...
如果他回來了, 要永遠愛他...


我在這願大家都要幸福喔

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Drink Hot Soup or Warm Water after a Meal‏

A cup of hot tea after a meal..
心臟病發作與喝溫開水

The Chinese and Japanese drink hot tea with their meals, not cold water, maybe it is time we adopt their drinking habit while eating.
中國人和日本人吃飯的時候喝熱茶,而不是喝冰開水,我們應該學習中國人和日本人的飲食習慣。
It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal.. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion. Once this 'sludge' reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.
吃過飯之後喝一杯冰冷的飲料的確很舒服,然而,冷開水會使你剛剛吃下肚的油膩膩的食物凝結在一起,而且會使胃腸的消化作用變慢,一旦這一大坨像爛泥的東西碰到胃酸,就會分解而很快地被腸子吸引,它會附著在腸壁上,沒多久它就會變成脂肪,而導致癌症,所以說,吃過飯之後最好還是喝一碗熱湯或一杯溫開水。
Common Symptoms Of Heart Attack...
心臟病發作的一般徵兆
A serious note about heart attacks - You should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting . Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line . 請你特別注意:並不是所有心臟病發作的時候都會左臂疼痛,你倒是要留意你頸項的劇烈疼痛。
You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms. 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know, the better chance we could survive.
心臟病發作的時候不一定會胸口疼痛,而噁心和猛烈的盜汗才是心臟病發作時常見的徵候,有60%的心臟病在睡夢中發作而患者因此一覺不醒,頸項疼痛常常會把你從熟睡中醒過來,所以要特別小心,我們懂得越多,活命的機會就越大。

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

人類的十個最佳時間‏

1. 唸書的最佳時間
早上醒來頭腦一定會昏昏的,但去洗把臉後 ,就會清醒多了, 這時也是頭腦最清醒的時候,而在此時唸書或是記東西都會比較容易!
2.運動的最佳時間
在早晨的時候出去散散步是不錯的,因為早晨的空氣是最新鮮的,在散步時多呼吸些清新的空氣, 不僅可以提神,對身體又很有幫助,但切記不要做劇烈運動 喔!
3.吃水果的最佳時間
飯前一小時 吃水果最有益,因為水果是生食,吃生食再吃熟食, 體內就不會有白細胞增高的反應,有利於保護人體免疫系統,增強防病抗癌的能力。
4.鍛煉的最佳時間
傍晚時 鍛鍊身體是最好的,因為人的各種活動都受〝生物鐘〞的影響, 無論是身體的適應或體力的發揮都在下午近傍晚時分最佳, 早上則反之,運動時的血壓和心率都較傍晚時高,對人體有害。
5.洗澡的最佳時間
晚上臨睡前 ,洗一次溫水澡能讓全身的肌肉和關節放鬆,有助於安然入睡。
6.減肥的最佳時間
飯後45分鐘。在二十分鐘內散步行程1600米,最有利於減肥。 如過二小時後再散步二十分鐘,則減肥效果更佳。
7.睡眠的最佳時間
午睡最好從 午後一小時開始 ,這時身體感覺較遲鈍,很容易入睡。 晚上則以 十時至十一時上床最佳,因為人的深睡時間一般在淩晨二時至淩晨三時, 而人在睡後一個半小時進入深睡狀態。
8.刷牙的最佳時間
應在每次 進食後三分鐘內 ,因為飯後三分口腔內的細菌開始分解 食物殘渣中的酸性物質,腐蝕溶解牙釉質。
9.護膚的最佳時間
人體皮膚的新陳代謝夜間十二時至凌晨六時最為旺盛, 因此睡前護膚 有促進和保護皮膚新陳代謝及保護皮膚健美的作用。
10.飲茶的最佳時間
飯後立即喝茶不科學,因為飯後立即喝茶,茶葉中的鞣酸可與食物中的鐵結合成不溶的鐵鹽,降低鐵的吸收,時間長了容易誘發貧血,等飯後一小時,食物中的鐵質已基本吸收完畢, 這時喝茶就不會影響鐵的吸收了。
記住了沒~~ 我親愛的朋友!希望人人都能選對時間..才有健康的身體.

明白它们,你会发现你的人生在改变^^ Wise Advice


人之所以痛苦,在于追求错误的东西。
The reason that the human the pain, lies in the pursue wrong thing.

如果你不给自己烦恼,别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心,你放不下。
If you do not give yourself the worry, others also never possibly give you the worry. Because of yours innermost feelings, you cannot lay down.

好好的管教你自己,不要管别人。
Well teaches yourself, do not manage others.

你随时要认命,因为你是人。
You momentarily must accept fate, because you are the human.

这个世界本来就是痛苦的,没有例外的。
This world is originally the pain, does not have the exception.

你什么时候放下,什么时候就没有烦恼。
When you do put down, you won't have worry.

每一种创伤,都是一种成熟。
Each kind of wound, is one kind of maturity.

当你烦恼的时候,你就要告诉你自己,这一切都是假的,你烦恼什么?
When your worry time, you must tell you, all these are false, your worry what?

根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁,如果有一条疯狗咬你一口,难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗?
Does not need to turn head looked that who curses you the person is, if has a mad dog to nip your one, you also do want to lie prone instead nip his one?

忌妒别人,不会给自己增加任何的好处。忌妒别人,也不可能减少别人的成就。
Is jealous others, will not increase any advantage for oneself. Is jealous others, is also impossible to reduce others' achievement.

永远不要浪费你的一分一秒,去想任何你不喜欢的人。
Never must waste your one minute one second, thought any you do not like human.
得不到的东西,我们会一直以为他是美好的,那是因为你对他了解太少,没有时间与他相处在一起。当有一天,你深入了解后,你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。
Cannot obtain the thing, we have thought that he will be happy, that will be because you will understand to him are too few, will not have the time to be together with him in the same place. When one day, after your inquire deeply, you will discover that will not be originally you imagines that happily.

这个世间只有圆滑,没有圆满的。
This in society is smooth, does not have completely.

不要刻意去猜测他人的想法,如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断,通常都会有错误的。
Do not guess other people's idea desirably, if you do not have the wisdom and experience's correct judgment, usually will have the mistake.

你要感谢告诉你缺点的人。
You must thank tell you the shortcoming the human.

时间总会过去的,让时间流走你的烦恼吧!
The time general meeting, let the time escape in the past your worry!

不要因为小小的争执,远离了你至亲的好友,也不要因为小小的怨恨,忘记了别人的大恩。
Because of the small dispute, should not be far away from your very close good friend, also do not because of the small hate, forget others' big graciousness.

感谢上苍我所拥有的,感谢上苍我所没有的。
Thanks, thanks the Heaven which the Heaven I have I not to have.

当你手中抓住一件东西不放时,你只能拥有这件东西,如果你肯放手,你就有机会选择别的。人的心若死执自己的观念,不肯放下,那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。
When in your hand holds a thing does not put, you can only have this thing, if you are willing to drop, you have the opportunity to choose other. If human's heart dies holds own idea, is not willing to lay down, then his wisdom also can only achieve some kind of degree.

如果你能够平平安安的渡过一天,那就是一种福气了。多少人在今天已经见不到明天的太阳,多少人在今天已经成了残废,多少人在今天已经失去了自由,多少人在今天已经家破人亡。
If you could safe cross for one day, that was one kind of good fortune. How many people in today already could not see that tomorrow's sun, how many people had already become the disabled person in today, how many people had already lost the freedom in today, how many people were already with one's family broken up and decimated in today.

恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中,不管他有多坏,有多恶。你愈骂他,你的心就被污染了,你要想,他就是你的善知识。
The slander never must stem from ours mouth, no matter he has badly, has wickedly. You scolded him, your heart have been polluted, if you wanted, he to be your friendly knowledge.

你不要常常觉得自己很委曲,你应该要想,他对我这样已经很好了,这就是修行的功夫。
Do not think frequently you are very crooked, you should, if wanted, he to be very like this already good to me, this was the time which led a pious life.

世界原本就不是属于你,因此你用不着抛弃,要抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我所用,但非我所属。
The world originally belongs to you, therefore you have no need to get rid, what must get rid is? Sulphur weapon Rigid. The myriad things all are adopted by us, but I am must respective.

学会用理解的,欣赏的眼光去看对方,而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。
The academic society with the understanding, the appreciation judgment looks at opposite party, but is not by the care tube opposite party which thinks oneself infallible.

成熟的人不问过去;聪明的人不问现在;豁达的人不问未来。
The mature person does not ask; The intelligent person does not ask the present; The open-minded person will not ask the future.

发光并非太阳的专利,你也可以发光。
The illumination sun's patent, you may also shine by no means.

你可以用爱得到全世界,你也可以用恨失去全世界。
You may use to like obtaining the world, you may also use to hate to lose the world.

爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切,却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。
Loves the strength big enough to may cause the human to forget all, is also actually small to grain of envy grit cannot hold continually.

人总是珍惜未得到的,而遗忘了所拥有的。
The human always treasures has not obtained, but forgot had.

如你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊,可能一辈子找不到朋友。
If you want to have the perfect busy friendship, possibly could not find the friend for a lifetime.

Friday, July 3, 2009

和乳癌說bye-bye的水果‏


各位親愛的朋友大家好: 乳癌, 原以為是家族遺傳占大部分因素, 經過醫生的說明才知道,遺傳只佔罹患率的10%,大環境越來越不好, 還有生活習慣以及飲食的不良所造成的因素反而較大,附上參考資料, 預防乳癌的水果, 供大家做參考!!! 祝大家身體健康, 和疾病說bye~ bye~

現在有小小秘方,別忘了告訴你的好友~ 乳癌,它一直都是女性朋友的隱憂,想想萬一要把最能讓人注目的部位切除掉,那是多麼難過的事啊! 不過你知道嗎?有個水果可是可以讓你跟乳癌說掰掰喔!
加拿大氰化物大學研究人員發現,番茄汁內所含的番茄紅素具有防止乳癌的效果,特別是像 番茄醬 、 番茄汁 或是 番茄湯 等 經過加工的番茄食品的番茄紅素特別容易為人體吸引 ,降低罹患乳癌的效果比直接生吃番茄還要好。 如果達到預防效果每天須吸收廿五毫克的番茄紅素。英國『衛報』報導,前此有研究顯示食用番茄可以減少男人罹患攝護腺癌和心臟病機率,而這項由一家茄醬公司贊助的研究則發現, 番茄、西瓜與紅葡萄呈現紅色的番茄紅素可以預防乳癌、子宮頸癌、前列腺癌、結腸癌與心臟病 ,其中又以預防乳癌的效果特別顯著。而且也應吃足量的新鮮蔬果以維健康。

去脂食物
(1). 凍豆腐
根據報導指出,凍豆腐能吸收胃腸道以及全身組織的脂肪, 有利脂肪的排泄。
(2). 鳳梨
鳳梨有蛋白質分解酵素,具有分解魚、肉的功能, 吃過大餐後可以吃它。 但是吃涼的東西會不舒服的人,儘量少吃它。
(3). 陳皮
漢方的陳皮,對脾、肺很好,可以幫助消化、 排除胃部的氣、減少腹部脂肪的堆積。 但是有心臟、血管毛病的人最好少吃!
(4). 薏仁
味道微甜的薏仁除了美白治痘,對水腫型的肥胖也很有幫助。但是孕婦禁止吃哦!
(5). 木瓜
木瓜有輕微的興奮作用。本草綱目說,木瓜可以去水腫、治腳氣病。關節不好的人,也可以吃木瓜改善哦!
(6). 醃製過的菜 植物性脂肪已被分解,而蛋白質、維生素、礦物質卻被破壞得極少,但水腫型的肉肉妹不可用這個來減肥!
(7). 竹筍
竹筍具有低脂、低糖、多粗纖維的特點,可防止便祕。但竹筍有難溶性的草酸鈣,胃潰瘍的人不可多吃!
(8). 綠豆芽
含有較高的磷、鐵之外,主要含有大量的水份,多吃綠豆芽,也不易形成脂肪在皮下 。

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Balance Sheet of Life

Our Birth is our Opening Balance!
Our Death is our Closing Balance!
Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities!
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets !

Heart is our Current Asset; Soul is our Fixed Asset;
Brain is our Fixed Deposit; Thinking is our Current Account.

Achievements are our Capital; Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade;
Friends are our General Reserves; Values & Behaviour are our Goodwill;
Patience is our Interest Earned; Love is our Dividend;
Children are our Bonus Issues; Education is Brands / Patents.

Knowledge is our Investment; Experience is our Premium Account;
The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.
The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.

Some very GOOD & very BAD things.........
The most destructive habit ~ WORRY;
The greatest joy ~ GIVING;
The greatest loss ~ LOSS OF SELF-RESPECT;
The most satisfying works ~ HELPING OTHERS;
The ugliest personality trait ~ SELFISHNESS;
The most endangered species ~ DEDICATED LEADERS;
Our greatest natural resource ~ OUR YOUTH;
The greatest 'shot in the arm' ~ ENCOURAGEMENT;
The greatest problem to overcome ~ FEAR;
The most effective sleeping pill ~ PEACE OF MIND;
The most crippling failure disease ~ EXCUSES;
The most powerful force in life ~ LOVE;
The most dangerous act ~ A GOSSIP
The world's most incredible computer ~ THE BRAIN;
The worst things to be without ~HOPE;
The dealiest weapon ~ THE TONGUE;
The two most power-filled words ~ 'I CAN';
The greatest asset ~ FAITH;
The most worthless emotion ~ SELF-PITY;
The most beautiful attire ~ SMILE !
The most prized possession ~ INTEGRITY;
The most powerful channel of communication ~ PRAYER;
The most contagious spirit ~ ENTHUSIASM;

Life ends; when you stop Dreaming;
Hope ends; when you stop Believing;
Love ends; when you stop Caring;
And Friendship ends; WHEN U STOP SHARING !!!!



Read & Think About It a Second or Two


Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two
小心讀每一個,再用一兩秒想一想
1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
我愛你不是因為你是誰,而是我在你面前可以是誰。

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚,值得的那一位,不會要你哭。
3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
那人不是你所想般愛你,但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。
4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手,觸動你心靈的人。
5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
掛念一個人最差的方式,就是你坐在他身旁,而知道你不能擁有他。
6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
就算你不快樂也不要皺眉,因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。
7.. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
在世界裡你可能只是某人,但對某人你可能是全世界。
8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。
9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人,讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。
10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要因為完結而哭,要為曾經發生而微笑。
11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人,你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信人。
12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前,先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要太努力去找,最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。

REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
緊記: 所有事也是因果循環的。

True friends: How many people actually have 8 true friends?
真正朋友: 有幾多人有八位真正的朋友?

Hardly anyone I know ! But some of us have all right friends and good friends!!!
我幾乎不認識這些人! 但在我們當中有些人全有對和好的朋友!!!

Thursday, June 18, 2009

睡覺忌諱‏


睡覺時,禁帶六項.......否則.....後果自行負責
人的睡眠是最完整、最系統、最有效的休息方法,也是科學養生的重要內容。 但如果忽略了睡眠中的一些細小事情,會對健康不利。
1.戴「錶」睡覺。
有的人喜歡戴著手錶睡覺,這不僅會縮短手錶的使用壽命,更不利於健康。 因為手錶特別是夜光錶有鐳輻射,量雖極微, 但專家認為,長時間的積累可導致不良後果。
2.戴「牙」睡覺。
一些人習慣戴著假牙睡覺,往往睡夢中不慎將假牙吞入食道, 假牙的鐵鉤可能會刺破食道旁的主動脈弓,引起大出血甚至危及生命。 因此,戴假牙的人臨睡前最好取下假牙清洗乾淨,既有利於口腔衛生,又可安全入眠。
3.戴「罩」睡覺。
美國夏威夷文明病研究所通過調查5000多位女性發現, 每天戴乳罩超過12個小時的女人, 罹患乳腺癌的可能性比短時間戴或根本不戴乳罩的人高出20倍以上。 女人戴乳罩是為了展示美或保護乳房,而晚上睡覺就沒有這個必要了。
4.帶「機」睡覺。
有的人為了通話方便,晚上睡覺時將手機放在頭邊。 美國專家詹姆斯·庫克指出, 各種電子設備,如彩電、冰箱、手機等在使用和操作過程中, 都有大量不同波長和頻率的電磁波釋放出來, 形成一種電子霧,影響人的神經系統和生理功能的紊亂, 雖然釋放量極微,但不可不防。
5.帶「妝」睡覺。
有些女性尤其是青年女性,她們往往在睡覺前懶得卸妝。 須知,帶著殘妝豔容睡覺,會堵塞你的肌膚毛孔, 造成汗液分泌障礙,妨礙細胞呼吸,長時間下去還會誘發粉刺,損傷容顏。 所以,睡前卸妝洗臉很有必要,可以及時清除殘妝對顏面的刺激, 讓肌膚得到充分呼吸,不僅可保持皮膚的潤澤,還有助於早入夢鄉。

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Do U Eat Petai?‏


ADVICE FROM UKM MEDICAL DOCTOR Little did you know ....... after reading THIS, you'll NEVER look at petai in the same way again!
Petai contains three natural sugars -sucrose, fructose and glucose. Combined with fiber, petai gives an instant, sustained and substantial boost of energy. Research has proved that just two servings of petai provide enough energy for a strenuous 90-minute wor kout. No wonder petai is the number one fruit with the world's leading athletes. But energy isn't the only way petai can help us keep fit. It can also help overcome or prevent a substantial number of illnesses and conditions, making it a must to add to our daily diet.
Depression: According to a recent survey undertaken by MIND among people suffering from depression, many felt much better after eating petai. This is because petai contain tryptophan, a type of protein that the body converts into serotonin, known to make you relax, improve your mood and generally make you feel happier.
PMS(premenstrual syndrome): Forget the pills - eat petai. The vitamin B6 it contains regulates blood glucose levels, which can affect your mood.
Anaemia: High in iron, petai can stimulate the production of haemoglobin in the blood and so helps in cases of anaemia.
Blood Pressure: This unique tropical fruit is extremely high in potassium yet low in salt, making it perfect to beat blood pressure. So much so, the US Food and Drug Administration has just allowed the petai industry to make official claims for the fruit's ability to reduce the risk of blood pressure and stroke.
Brain Power : 200 students at a Twickenham (Middlesex) school were helped through their exams this year by eating petai at breakfast, break, and lunch in a bid to boost their brain power. Research has shown that the potassium-packed fruit can assist learning by making pupils more alert. Understand that bananas contain lot of potassium too so eat more banana. Just look at those monkeys, they are really active, alert, smart and cunny too!!
Constipation: High in fiber, including petai in the diet can help restore normal bowel action, helping to overcome the problem without resorting to laxatives.
Hangovers: One of the quickest ways of curing a hangover is to make a petai milkshake, sweetened with honey. The petai calms the stomach and, with the help of the honey, builds up depleted blood sugar levels, while the milk soothes and re-hydrates your system.
Heartburn: Petai has a natural antacid effect in the body, so if you suffer from heartburn, try eating petai for soothing relief.
Morning Sickness: Snacking on petai between meals helps to keep blood sugar levels up and avoid morning sickness.
Mosquito bites: Before reaching for the insect bite cream, try rubbing the affected area with the inside of the petai skin. Many people find it amazingly successful at reducing swelling and irritation.
Nerves: Petai is high in B vitamins that help calm the nervous system.
Overweight: Studies at the Institute of Psychology in Austria found pressure at work leads to gorging on comfort food like chocolate and crisps. Looking at 5,000 hospital patients, researchers found the most obese were more likely to be in high-pressure jobs. The report concluded that, to avoid panic-induced food cravings, we need to control our blood sugar levels by snacking on high carbohydrate foods every two hours to keep levels steady.
Ulcers: Petai is used as the dietary food against intestinal disorders because of its soft texture and smoothness. It is the only raw fruit that can be eaten without distress in over-chronicler cases. It also neutralizes over-acidity and reduces irritation by coating the lining of the stomach.
Temperature control: Many other cultures see petai as a 'cooling' fruit that can lower both the physical and emotional temperature of expectant mothers. In hoiland, for example, pregnant women eat petai to ensure their baby is born with a cool temperature.
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Petai can help SAD sufferers because they contain the natural mood enhancer, tryptophan.
Smoking: Petai can also help people trying to give up smoking. The B6, B12 they contain, as well as the potassium and magnesium found in them, help the body recover from the effects of nicotine withdrawal.
Stress: Potassium is a vital mineral, which helps normalize the heartbeat, sends oxygen to the brain and regulates your body's water balance. When we are stressed, our metabolic rate rises, thereby reducing our potassium levels. These can be rebalanced with the help of a high-potassium petai snack.
Strokes: According to research in 'The New Engla nd Journal of Medicine, ' eating petai as part of a regular diet can cut the risk of death by strokes by as much as 40%'.
Warts: Those keen on natural alternatives swear that if you want to kill off a wart, take a piece of petai and place it on the wart. Carefully hold the petai in place with a plaster or surgical tape!
So, as you can see, petai really is a natural remedy for many ills. When you compare it to an apple, it has four times the protein, twice the carbohydrates, three times the phosphorus, five times the vitamin A and iron, and twice the other vitamins and minerals. It is also rich in potassium and is one of the best value foods around.
So maybe its time to change that well-known phrase so that we say, 'A Petai a day keeps the doctor away'.

Monday, June 15, 2009

患了中風 如何保住老命‏ ~ 放血救命法


一定要記住喔﹗﹗

患了中風,腦部的微血管,會慢慢的破裂, 遇到這種情形,千萬別慌,患者無論在什麼地方 … 《不管是浴室、臥房或客廳。》, 千萬不可搬動他。 因為,如果移動,會加速微血管的破裂。 所以要先原地把患者扶起坐穩以防止再摔倒, 這時才開始【放血】。 家中如有專為注射用的針,當然最好, 如果沒有,就拿縫衣用的銅針, 或是大頭針,用火燒一下消毒! 就在患者的十個手指頭尖兒 《沒有固定穴道,大約距離手指甲一分之處。》 刺上去, 要刺出血來【萬一血不出來,可用手擠。】, 等十個手指頭都流出血來 《每指一滴》, 大約幾分鐘之後,患者就會自然清醒! 如果嘴也歪了,就拉他的耳朵,把耳朵拉紅, 在兩耳的耳垂兒的部位,各刺兩針,也各流兩滴血, 幾分鐘以後,嘴就恢復原狀了。 等患者一切恢復正常感覺沒有異狀時再送醫, 就一定可以轉危為安,否則,若是急著抬上救護車送醫, 經一路的顛跛震動恐怕還沒到醫院,他腦部微血管, 差不多已經都破裂了。 萬一能夠吉人天相,保全老命, 能像孫院長,容得勉強行動,那得要靠祖上的庇蔭了。
放血救命法,是住在新竹的中醫師夏伯挺先生說的。 且是經自己親身實驗,敢說百分之百有效。 大概是民國六十八年我在台中逢甲學院任教, 有天上午,我正在上課,一位老師跑到我的教室上氣不接下氣的說: 『劉老師快來,主任中風了!』。 我立刻跑到三樓,看到陳幅添主任, 氣色不正,語意模糊,嘴也歪了,很明顯的是中風了。 立即請工讀生到校門外的西藥房,買來一支注射用的針頭, 就在陳主任十個手指頭上直刺。 等十個手指尖兒都見血了 《豆粒似的一滴》。 大約幾分鐘以後,陳主任的氣色就變過來了, 兩眼也有神了,只有嘴還歪著,我就拉搓他的耳朵, 使之充血,等把耳朵拉紅,就在左右耳垂之處, 各刺兩針,待兩耳垂都流出兩滴血來,奇蹟就出現了! 大約不到三五分鐘,他的嘴形,恢復正常了,說話也清清楚楚了。 讓他靜坐一陣子,喝了一杯熱茶,才扶他下樓, 開車送到惠華醫院,打一罐點滴,休息了一夜, 第二天;就出院回學校上課了。 一切照常工作,毫無後遺症。
反觀一般腦中風患者,都是送醫院治療時, 經過一路震盪血管急速破裂,以致多數患者一病不起, 所以腦中風,在死因排行榜上高居第二位, 其最幸運者,也僅能保住老命,而落得終身殘廢。 這是一個多麼可怕的病症。 如果大家都能記住這 《放血救命》的方法, 立刻施救,在短短時間它能起死回生, 而且保證百分之百的正常。 這個急救法,希望大家告訴大家。 那腦中風,在死因排行榜上,就可以除名了。
● 閱後傳知他人,功德無量!●

Sunday, June 14, 2009

朋 友

送給你!
忙 的 時 候 , 想 要 休 息 ; 渡假 的 時 候 , 想 到 未 來 。
窮的 時 候 , 渴 望 富 有 ; 生活 安 逸 了 , 怕 幸 福 不 能 長 久 。
該決 定 的 時 候 , 擔 心 結 果 不 如 預 期 ; 看明 白 了 , 後 悔 當 初 沒 有 下 定 決 心 。
不屬 於 自 己 的 , 常 常 心 存 慾 望 ; 握在 手 裡 了 , 又 懷 念 未 擁 有 前 的輕 鬆 。 生命 若 不 是 現 在 ,那 是 何 時 ?
一 個 人 可 以 毫 無 道 理 跟 你 做 一 輩 子 親 戚 , 但 一 個 人 不 會 毫 無 道 理 跟 你 做 一 輩 子 朋 友 我會 想 起 . . 與 你 們 認 識 的 種 種 . . 也會 想 起 .. . 發 生 過 的 點 點 滴 滴 . . 直到 我 們 都 年 老 時 . . 是 否 會 像 現 在 這 樣 . . 坐 在 電 腦 前 互 訴 心 聲 ?
不管 如 何 . . 希 望 我 們 永 遠 是 真 誠 相 對 的 知 己 . ..
朋 友 就 是 喜 歡 你 也 了 解 你 的 人願 你 都 能 珍 惜 身 邊 每 一 個 朋 友因 為 你 我 有 緣 份 , 才 能 成 為 朋 友可 以 成 為 知 己 的 , 更 難 得 !時 間 未 必 O 你 我 成 為 知 己 的 原 因但 一 定 可 以 証 明 到 你 對 朋 友 的 關 懷 不 是 白 費 !希 望 您 永 遠 都 係 我 的 好 朋 友 !
朋 友 , 是 你 高 興 時 想 跟 他 分 享 的 ,
朋 友 , 是 你 不 高 興 時 可 以 給 你 發 脾 氣 的 ,
朋 友 , 也 是 在 你 沒 錢 開 飯 時 打 救 你 的 ,
朋 友 , 你 悶 得 發 荒 時 可 以 跟 你 一 同 發 荒 的 ,
朋 友 , 會 甘 願 給 功 課 你 抄 , 跟 你 一 同 出 貓 一 同 被 人 罰 的 ,
朋 友 , 也 是 你 買 手 信 時 , 想 買 一 份 大 的 給 他 的,
朋 友 , 也 是 你 看 見 他 上 線 時 , 想 給 他 ' 喔 噢 ' !
想 要 體 會 「 一 年 」 有 多 少 價 值 , 你 可 以 去 問 一 個 失 敗 重 修 的 學 生 。
想 要 體 會 「 一 月 」 有 多 少 價 值 , 你 可 以 去 問 一 個 不 幸 早 產 的 母 親 。
想 要 體 會 「 一 週 」 有 多 少 價 值 , 你 可 以 去 問 一 個 定 期 週 刊 的 編 輯 。
想 要 體 會 「 一 小 時 」 有 多 少 價 值 , 你 可 以 去 問 一 對 等 待 相 聚 的 戀 人 。
想 要 體 會 「 一 分 鐘 」 有 多 少 價 值 , 你 可 以 去 問 一 個 錯 過 火 車 的 旅 人 。
想 要 體 會 「 一 秒 鐘 」 有 多 少 價 值 , 你 可 以 去 問 一 個 死 裡 逃 生 的 幸 運 兒 。
想 要 體 會 「 一 毫 秒 」 有 多 少 價 值 , 你 可 以 去 問 一 個 錯 失 金 牌 的 運 動 員 。
朋 友 就 是 ~ ~ 即 使 是 一 點 小 感 動 , 一 點 小 事 情 都 想 一 起 分
朋 友 就 是 ~ ~ 當 你 抱 頭 μ h 哭 的 時 候 , 扶 著 你 肩 膀 的 那 個 人
朋 友 就 是 ~ ~ 當 你 面 對 人 生 挫 折 時 , 一 直 緊 握 你 那 雙 手你 好 嗎 ?你 能 夠 看 到 它 是 你 與 他 的 緣 份你 能 夠 和 你 身 邊 的 人
做 朋 友 也 是 你 與 他 的 緣 份縱 使 你 不 知 道 這 夥 流 星 會 何 時 消 失但 如 若 你 好 好 珍 惜 看 到 這 流 星 的 每 一 刻那 就 算 流 星 走 了 你 也 不 會 後 悔 請 大 家 好 好 珍 惜 身 邊 的 每 一 個 人珍 惜 這 段 友 誼 !
建 立 友 誼 如 像 種 樹 , 因 為 友 誼 是 一 株 樹 ( T R E E ) :T : T r u s t ( 信 任 )R : R e s p e c t ( 尊 重 )E : E x c h a n g e ( 交 流 )E : E m o t i o n a l S u p p o r t ( 精 神 支 持 )
---- 好 朋 友 守 則 ---- 朋 友 就 是 無 形 中 伴 你 走 過 風 雨 , 永 遠 支 持 你 的 力 量朋 友 就 是 一 種 無 法 言 喻 的 美 好 感 覺朋 友 就 是 在 別 人 面 前 永 遠 護 著 你 的 那 個 人朋 友 就 是 即 使 是 一 點 小 感 動 , 一 點 小 事 情 都 想 一 起 分 享朋 友 就 是 當 你 抱 頭 痛 哭 的 時 候 , 扶 著 你 肩 膀 的 那 個 人朋 友 就 是 當 你 面 對 人 生 挫 折 時 , 一 直 緊 握 你 的 那 雙 手----------------

喜歡下雨,因為你不會知道我流淚....
喜歡發呆....因為你不會知道我想你....
喜歡孤單....因為你不會發現我愛你....
喜歡在你身邊....因為你是我快樂的唯一因素 ...



幸福方程式: 一顆敢夢的心+兩倍的努力+三倍的行動 就能成就百分之的幸福和成功

Saturday, June 13, 2009

相遇不是用來生氣的‏

一對上班族男女吸引了我的目光, 而他們的一段對話,更讓人難忘。
每天搭乘公車上下班,來回通勤時間約莫近二小時,有時人少,可坐在位置上欣賞窗外的風景;人多時,也只能慢慢地擠回家, 但這時,身邊乘客的對話總會不時地傳到耳邊。前日往回家的公車上,轉程靠站時,乘客頓時多了起來。一對上班族男女恰巧在我身邊,吸引了我的目光。 可能因為人多,男的不時地將手臂圍住女的,並輕聲的問「累不累?」「待會想吃些什麼?」只見女的不耐煩地回答「我已經夠煩了,吃什麼都還不先決定,每次都要問我。」男的一臉無辜的低下頭,而後說了令我印象深刻的話。 「讓妳決定是因為希望能夠陪妳吃妳喜歡的東西,然後看到妳滿足的笑容,把今天工作的不愉快暫時忘掉。我的能力不足,妳工作上所受的委屈我沒法幫妳, 我所能做的也只有這樣。」 女的聽了後,滿懷愧疚的說聲對不起。男的這才似乎重燃信心般說:「沒關係,只要你開心就好。」而後親吻了女的頭髮。 下車前再回頭看看這對情侶,男的依舊保護著心愛的人。

這樣的情景,讓我覺得自己今天同樣在工作上有些許不愉快,如果沒有聽到這一段對話,回家後的我,可能也是一副全世界都對不起我的臭臉面對心愛的人,只在乎自己的委屈,卻忽視對方的感受,不自覺地傷害最親密的人。 所以在踏進家門時,我問自己,難道我要像公車上那位女孩一樣忍心將自己的不滿委屈帶給身旁的人嗎?不,我想我現在應該做的是...

別再把工作上的情緒發洩在心愛的人身上, 破壞了最親密的關係,並且主動給自己一個微笑。相遇,不是用來生氣的!說得真好!當自己快抓不住情緒時,想想這句話, 應該會讓煩忙的生活,加些微笑的因子吧!

同樣地,在日常生活中,我們牽掛得太多, 我們太在意得失,所以我們的情緒起伏,我們不快樂。在生氣之際,我們如能多想想︰「我不是為了生氣而工作的。」「我不是為了生氣而教書的。」 「我不是為了生氣而交朋友的。」「我不是為了生氣而作夫妻的。」「我不是為了生氣而生兒育女的。」那麼我們會為我們煩惱的心情闢出另一番安詳

看完之後…當你和朋友..家人爭執時…要記得你們的相遇…不是用來生氣的喔…

但...人非聖賢...誰能不生氣呢…看了這篇文章以後…記得.....下次要生氣時… 就別生太久…免得傷心、傷肝、傷腎又傷腸胃…

Thursday, June 11, 2009

When a boy & When a girl...‏

When a boy.......
When a BOY is queit, he has nothing to say...
When a BOY is not arguing, he not in the mood of arguing...
When a BOY looks at you with eyes full of questions, he is really confused...
When a BOY answers "I'm fine" after a few seconds, he is actually fine...
When a BOY stares at you, he is either amazed or angry...
When a BOY lays in your lap, he is whishing for you to be his forever...
When a BOY calls you everyday, he is spending alot of time to get your attention...
When a BOY sms's you everyday, he is forwarding them...
When a BOY says I love you, it's not the first time...
When a BOY says that he can't live without you, he has made up his mind that you are his for at least a week...
When a girl.......
When a GIRL is quiet, millions of things are running in her mind...
When a GIRL is not arguing, she is thinking deeply...
When a GIRL looks at you with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around...
When a GIRL answers "I'm fine" after a few seconds, she is not at all fine...
When a GIRL stares at you, she is wondering why are you lying...
When a GIRL lays in your chest, she is whishing for you to be hers forever...
When a GIRL calls you everyday, she is seeking for your attention...
When a GIRL sms's you everyday, she wants you to reply at least once...
When a GIRL says I love you, she means it...
When a GIRL says that he can't live without you, she has made up her mind that you are her future...
When a GIRL says "I miss you", no one in this world can miss you more than her.....

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

真愛,就不要等,除非是不想結婚. .....


男孩也好女孩也好,一起看看幾米的讀白吧......

1.
很清楚的知道她不合適自己,可是更確定的是他不會主動說分手。他只是耗著等著,直到有一天女生自己受不了忽冷忽熱、若即若離的態度,或是等到年華老去不得不下決定時,自己選擇離開。妳的主動離開,我沒有負心,反而是尊重與成全妳的決定。

2.半年後發現,他居然可以跟一個只認識三個月的女生步入禮堂,令她晴天霹靂,才明白他不是不想結婚,不是真的不婚主義者,說穿了只是他不想跟妳結婚。八年的愛情長跑比不上三個月的感情。

3.這位故事中的男生是我的朋友,現在也已經結婚半年。當他聽到劉若英的「後來」,居然會無法克制的流眼淚,想起的是他交往八年的前任女友。為什麼會難過,因為妻子身上有著前任女友的影子,他才明白其實他喜歡的就是這種類型的女孩。

4.可是人往往很矛盾, 喜歡她的倔強與有性格,卻受不了她的嬌縱。喜歡她的落落大方,卻受不了她的朋友一堆;你愛她的小家碧玉,就不要怪她不夠大方;你愛她的活潑大方,就不要批評她像花蝴蝶一樣。戀愛談的愈長,結婚的可能性就愈低,
所以有時候戀愛的長度與結婚的可能性成反比。

5.喜新厭舊是人性,日子久了,會結婚不是為了愛情,而是責任感的驅使。婚後的他才慢慢的發現,當時的那一段感情其實不是不愛,是時間太久了太長了,把愛情給磨掉了,再遇到另一個女孩點燃了愛情的火苗,星星之火足以遼源,把枯竭已久的愛情給予生命,所以倉促的決定結婚。等到真的結婚後,愛情降了溫,才慢慢的發現其實妻子的身上有著許多前任女友的影子,他比較愛的人其實還是前任女友,可是他娶的卻不是她。這樣的情節不知道是不是也在別處同樣上演著?

6.學生時代的愛情很單純,出社會以後總想等工作穩定以後再結婚,工作穩定以後又想等有一點積蓄買車子、買房子以後再結婚,等著等著,等到愛情被時光給消磨,等到第三者介入點燃了對方心中激情的火苗,乾柴烈火不可收拾以後,曾經在年少一起織夢的理想全都抵擋不了新鮮感的激情,所以琵琶別抱,到最後步入禮堂的都不是在一起同甘共苦、共同經歷過寒、暑假,等當兵的人。

7.奉勸各位女孩子,如果對方真的是你想結婚的對象,不要想著有房子有車子有金 子,有了一切再結婚。現實是,等他有了一切,他的身價暴漲是有價值的單身貴族,他必需要面臨的是更多的誘惑,妳長久以來的等待與年輕時許 下的山盟海誓都難以抵擋誘惑排山倒海的來。就像我現在若不嫁他,非得等到他有車子有房子還有存款時再結婚,那時新娘有極高的可能不是我。因為要等到什麼都有還要幾年?
有能力的男人就像酒愈久愈香醇,女人則像麵包一樣有賞味期限,青春是女人的天敵。
如果我是他,等到我三十五歲,什麼都有是個有上千萬身價的黃金單身漢,我並不需要一個很有能力而年過三十的女人來幫襯我,我寧可選個如花似玉,年輕貌美的女生,也許沒有什麼工作能力,至少發揮了賞心悅目的功能,一個真正有能力的男人,不會在乎一個女人是否能在他的財富上加乘。遇上對的人,莫等待莫蹉跎,也許沒有房子沒有車子,只要他認真上進,他就是張有潛力的積優股,早點進場獲利更高

8. 也提醒各位男士,如果對方真的是你想好好疼愛的女人,別讓她等太久,
有她一起陪你奮鬥應該是很美好的一件事除非你心中有其他的想法,否則別讓愛情等太久,把真愛都磨掉了!雖然聽起來很殘忍,但身邊的家人朋友都有類似的例子。

Lessons from Life

Never explain yourself to anyone.
Because the person who likes you doesn't need it, and the person who dislikes you won't believe it.
When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free.
When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time.
When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come.
When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices.
Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams. Choice is yours......
We make them cry who care for us.
We cry for those who never care for us.
And we care for those who will never cry for us.
This is the truth of life, its strange but true.
Once you realise this, its never too late to change.
Don't make promise when you are in joy.
Don't reply when you are sad.
Don't take decision when you are angry.
Think twice.......Act wise.....
Time is like a river.
You cannot touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again.
Enjoy every moment of life...........
First i was dying to finish my high school and start college.
And then i was dying to finish college and start working.
Then i was dying to marry and have children. And then i was dying for my children to grow old enough so i could go back to work.
But then i was dying to retire. And now i'm dying.
And suddenly i realized i forgot to live.
Please don't let this happen to you. Appreciate your current Situation and enjoy each day.

送給不小心感冒的人 : 密招‏


下次感冒初期,不妨試試 ! 無害。 可以很快使感冒或頭痛不再繼續惡化!
如果你感覺到已經開始流鼻水、連續打噴嚏、有點頭痛,就快要感冒了! 趕緊先喝兩、三杯熱開水( 不可以喝冰的 ) 。 等三、五分鐘,再沖一杯咖啡,一定要熱的喝才有效 ( 不可冰 )。 二、三十分鐘以後,咖啡和先前喝的開水會讓你要尿尿。 而且,很神 奇的,流鼻水、打噴嚏、頭痛都慢慢不見了!
想知道為什麼這麼好用? 一、咖啡可以讓你加速排尿。加上先喝的開水, 可以把已經侵入繁殖的病毒,從身體裡「洗」掉大部分 二、咖啡有提神、興奮的作用,會讓你低迷不振的免疫功能提振起來。 病毒從尿尿排掉了一部分,免疫功能又加強了, 感冒繼續惡化的可能當然降低不少。

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

为什么我们说買東西,而不说買南北呢?

買東西,為什麼不說買南北?

南宋理學大家朱熹在未出仕前,家鄉有叫盛溫和的好友,此人亦是博學多才的人,一天兩人相遇於巷子內,盛手中拿著一個竹籃子,朱熹問他:「你去那裡?」
盛回答說:「我要去買點東西。」 朱熹是以窮理致知研究學問的人,他聽盛的話,很好奇,隨即問道:「你說買東西, 為什麼不說買南北呢?」
盛溫和反問朱熹:「你知什麼是五行嗎?」
朱熹答:「我當然知道,不就是金、木、水、火、土嗎?」
盛說:「不錯,你知道了就好辦,現在我說給你聽,東方屬木,西方屬金,南方屬火,北方屬水,中間屬土。我的籃子是竹做的,盛火會燒掉,裝水會漏光,只能裝木和金,更不會盛土,所以叫買東西,不說買南北呀。」
朱熹聽後唉了一聲說:「原來是這樣!」


原來買東西這個名詞還有這樣一個典故,未收到這篇故事前,還真是搞不懂,買東西的由來,為何會說買東西而不說買南北,看了這篇故事後才知道原來還有這樣一段插曲呢,古人的智慧真是蘊藏在我們的生活的點點滴滴中。

Monday, April 13, 2009

Why do we SHOUT when we are ANGRY?

Meaningful ~ Special for all my friends....

One day, a Professor askeds his students: " Why do we SHOUT instead of speak when we are ANGRY?"
All the students thought for a while. One answered: " Because we lost our cool. That's why we SHOUT."
Asked the Professor again: " But the person is just right next to you, why can't we talked softly but have to SHOUT? "
Everyone gave their opinion but none was accepted by Professor.
Lastly explained by the Professor: " When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart. To mask the DISTANCE we felt, we instinctively SHOUT instead of speak so the other party can hear us. But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we drift apart further. So we even SHOUT louder.....
It is the opposite when we are in love. Not only we do not shout, we whisper into each others ears. Why? This is because our heart are very close, almost never apart. AS our love deepen, we reach a state of communication where there is no need for words. We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look. " concluded the Professor.
"Therefore when we were arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make our hearts drift apart. WAIT a few days. When you feel your hearts are no longer far apart, pick up the conversation and continue from there."

Star Fruit Can Kill‏

Star Fruit Can Kill Goes by another name....carambola
We were advised to have a few servings of fruits a day in order to reap the benefits of fruits right? But obviously this is one big no-no fruit to be excluded from your fruity feast!
In Shenzen, more than 10 people who consumes the star fruit had died.. And now a 66-year-old, Malaysian who has been suffering from kidney ailment fell into coma after eating the start fruits. Yes, all it takes is one fruit or 100ml of its juice and the ordinarily harmless star fruit transforms poison in a matter of hours for kidney patients. So does this mean, people without kidney problems should be fine with star fruit! My take: Not at all! Prevention is better right?
Universiti Malaya Medical Centre consultant nephrologist said that star fruits contain a neurotoxin which is not present in other fruits. It affects the brain and nerves. In healthy persons, the kidneys filter it out. But for those with kidney problems, this potent toxin cannot be removed and will worsen the consumers' conditions.
The symptoms of start fruit poisoning include: ~Hiccups ~Numbness and weakness ~Feeling confused ~Agitation ~Epileptic fist The risk of death is high if you are having kidney ailments! But healthy individuals should beware of this fruit's potential toxin too. It could also cripple your vitality if you are not lucky. So don't take it for granted. It's better to avoid them.
Please pass this news to others.

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Saturday, February 7, 2009

Watch your feet‏ ~ Part II

When your toes are tiny, this suggests you are a responsible and honest person. People with tiny toes are said to make good spouse material.





When you feet are big, (size 8 and above for men and size 7 and above for women) this indicates you are a "survivor". You can deal with any kinds of problems, setbacks, obstacles or difficult people. You are decisive and can provide strong leadership.




When your middle toe is the longest among your toes, it is not a good indication as it suggests your destiny could turn irksome during middle age. You could suffer from a perpetual shortage of money and face obstacles that block your success.






When your second toe is longer than your big toe, this suggests you will have plenty of food on the table and plenty of friends around you. You impress others with your good heart, so many will speak well of you. But you need to work hard to maintain your increasingly extravagant lifestyle.



When your feet are small (size 6 and below for men and size 5 and below for women) you should take good care of your nose or breathing system. You are mature and prudent but should learn to overcome your jealous nature and tendencies, as they could bring about your downfall or be a major source of unhappiness.




The colour of your toes can not only indicate the condition of your health, it can also indicate your potential for wealth. Toes which are milky white and transparent suggest you will have a stable life. Grey toes suggest you will have a tough life. The best colour however is reddish, which suggests someone rich and successful.


When your toes are big, this suggests you are a leader. You can be a very stubborn person, hot tempered and possessive, but you can arouse great passion in others.





When your toes are meaty and uneven in size, it suggests you have the luck to own property and enjoy good fortune. You have the potential to become a property tycoon.



Watch your feet‏ ~ Part I

The Chinese believe "cold arises from the feet" and "a person's aging starts from the feet". The feet are the source of hidden troubles for premature senility and pathological changes in the human body. They Chinese believe that every meridian point in our feet is a part of our body system; therefore foot reflexology is the ideal treatment for the elderly, the stressed executive, the sportsman, in fact just about anybody. But did you know that just by observing the shape of a person's feet and legs, you can learn about their characteristics, personality traits and innermost secrets?

When legs are long, lean and smooth, this suggests the person will enjoy a smooth sailing life with few obstacles. You are an active, hardworking and helpful person. You are likely to have a very good life before your thirties. After 30, your life depends on other destiny indicators



When your legs are short relative to your body, this suggests you are smart, attentive and quiet. You prefer jobs which do not require you to deal with too many people. You may face some obstacles before your thirties, but after that your luck improves tremendously for the better.





Someone who walks with an inward splay suggests they are low profile, preferring the stable life rather than taking risks.



If you walk with a splayed feet, it suggests you are a busybody. You can be more into other people's business than your own. You love to show off to others and are usually very talkative.



When feet are bony, this suggests a poor person. Life has many difficulties and it is a struggle to make life go smoothly. So do try to fatten up your feet. Nothing like good fleshy feet to bring the good life!







When your toes are sharp in shape, it suggests you are the black sheep of the family. You love to spend money but are lazy to work; it indicates a lack of great achievement in life.






When your feet are meaty and smooth, it suggests you will become very prosperous and rich. It is also an indication that such a person's family is very rich, belonging to the privileged class.








When your toenails are round in shape and smooth, especially if you are a woman, this suggests you will marry a rich husband.